We are all too young to die…

Sure, it sounds like an alarmist title, but if there one thing you can be sure about is the fact that you, me, absolutely everyone is going to die at some point

However, none of us wants it to be on the plane, on the first leg of an overseas adventure. Surely none of us wants that (maybe you do – that’s ok but you are in the minority – and stop here the following tips are not for you).

That is almost what happened to me, on my first international trip the bullet-ridden plane from Jarkata, with toilets that didn’t work, a seat rest that fell apart when I sat down. The plane skittered down the runway, took a few failed attempts at taking off before it was airborne, and then flew straight into a lightning storm.

In my terrified state I negotiated a deal with life, let me live, write and travel. In return, I promise to live life to the fullest. And then if you still want me, I’ll welcome death at when it finally arrives.

Many flights later, I live to tell the tale, and I am still an avid traveller and have been on many more rickety flights, with only the occasional fear of crashing.

So here are a few tricks I’ve learnt on the way, that have kept me alive and have made me little wiser.  Sharing these stories in the event that you find yourself in a similar situation you can save yourself or better yet avoid the situation altogether.

Getting out alive 101, lessons on not dying and what to do should you find yourself:

1. Stuck out in the ocean

First off, don’t panic.  If at all possible, avoid ending up alone in the middle of the ocean. Take heed not to swim too far offshore and into a current. Don’t dive off a cruise ship, and don’t decide to snorkel and leave the boat like a plonker (that’d be me).

Next, don’t do what I did, which is try to swim. Do float to reserve your energy and hope that whoever lost you is smart enough to come and find you.  Failing that, swim calmly in the last known direction of the shore.

Should you have a flare in your pocket – set it off – once you’ve removed it from your pocket, obviously!

Pray if you need to pray, pee if you need to pee, and if you see a shark, try to avoid it.

2. Avoiding being eaten by a shark,

When you find yourself at sea with a shark, a wise man or drunken surf lifesaver once told me to just stand up. The logic is that sharks can’t turn on their side, which makes perfect sense, (disclaimer: I’ve not tested this theory – so don’t try it at home).

This advice is, of course, is useless if you are in the middle ocean and the sea floor is miles down.

Tip: Stay at a depth where you can touch the bottom and stand up.

If you are out at sea and do spot a shark, stay calm (easier said than done, but try) and don’t splash around.  Sharks might mistake you for a dying fish, and you’ll end up on the menu.

Do remind yourself that sharks by and large don’t prefer human meat, they prefer seals… obvious tip: Don’t mimic a seal.

3. Big ocean Rip and waves

Now you might end up in that big ocean with the shark if you get suck in a rip.  If you’ve ever been stuck in a strong current, you know that it sucks – literally!

You scramble to remember that wisdom passed down from your surf life-saving instructor when you were knee-high to a grasshopper. Hoping for a miracle, that those fatal words will come to you.

Trust me, you won’t remember.  So here are so new ones: ‘relax and go with the flow’.

The worse thing you can do is panic and swim against the rip to vainly attempt to get back to shore. The strongest part is in the middle of the rip. Try to stay afloat and let it pull you out, in the end, it will fling you out and free.

As soon as the pull loosens, swim parallel to shore, well past it and then swim back in.  This is one of those instances that it pays to know how to float well. Reserve your energy to get past it and back to shore.

See a surf life-saver give them a wave, they should come out and rescue you. Check out this handy guide and videos, if you want to brush up on what to do.

4. Food Poisoning

Getting food poisoning can happen anywhere and at any time. Some countries are more likely to get it than others. There is a reason that the biggest conversation in India revolves around the Delhi Belly… of which I won’t go into the details – for anyone who has been there – I don’t need to.

The best way to avoid getting poisoned is to avoid using local water; this includes ice in your drinks, water for brushing your teeth and salad that has been washed in water.  Raw fish or meat can also be suspect – it’s a good time to become vegetarian.

For me, when I was beastly ill in Costa Rica the culprit was the unpasteurised cheese – an unlikely suspect. I realised it was the cheese because when I finally recovered, I ate what was left over in the fridge, which floored me for another two weeks.

Tip: Drink Coca Cola – if you’ve seen what it does to coins, you know it will kill most anything in your gut.  It’s the only time it’s worth drinking.

5. Getting Attacked

All girls should learn self-defence, not in the hope that she has to use it, but so she can at least face any dangerous situation with confidence. With all danger, prevention is better than dealing with the situation.

Know the lay land, stay alert, sober and keep your eyes open.  If you think you are being followed, slow down and check.  Stay where there are other people and get a taxi if you feel unsafe.

In all my travels, I’ve only had to deal with the situation once. In England of all places.  Thankfully a gentle self-defence move, staying calm, telling the person very strongly ‘NO’, before walking back to the main road to get a taxi up the street was all that was needed.

Luckily I was able to walk away.  I wish beyond all else that we lived in a world where this wasn’t at all necessary – yet in the meantime, a little preparation means you can travel confidently and kick arse if you need to (which I hope you never do).

Tip: If you’ve not had any training – brush up, it’s never too late to learn some moves, see here

6. You find yourself in the wrong part of town:

Don’t you just hate it when this happens, you take a wrong turn; you get off the bus at the wrong stop and the next minute everyone is looking at you with the *WTF raised eyebrows*.

Play it cool, and whatever you do don’t pull out a map, or your newest iPhone.  Do act like you know where you are heading. Head confidently along the shortest route back to a better area.

I’ve accidentally wandered in the Tenderloin area of San Francisco and into the back streets of La Boca in Argentina. Thankfully while in San Fran an angel came and rescued me and guided me back onto the right path.  I can write it off an interesting experience.

Now I ask the hotel or Airbnb where I am staying if there are any areas to avoid – so I know ahead of time to avoid them when possible.

7. Dangerous Crocodiles, Snakes and Wildlife

While this looks like a no-brainer however you only need to look at the statistics of the tourists that die without heeding the warning signs.  In Australian’s Northern Territory, the signs read ‘beware of crocodiles’.  Which is why you won’t see the locals bathing there.

Tourists do – and hence the crocodiles are kept well fed.

Should you go hiking in nature, know what might be lurking and the right way to respond. Ask the locals or the hotel where you are staying about the local wildlife and get any tips and pointers.  Snakes in Australia will run if you stomp or make noise, while the ones in Costa Rica are curious and will come closer for a look.

Tip: If all else fails and you do get bitten, try to take note of what did bite you, the colours, shape and size – it’s the only way to know what antidote is right and what action is needed.

8. Arriving late at night

When you are backpacking and jump on a train it’s always pretty smart to know what time you are arriving somewhere and to make sure you have some local money or credit card.

If you are arriving late at night and don’t know the local language, book a place to stay ahead of time or even a taxi, and have a map with you.

I made the mistakes when I got the ferry to Sicily where I arrived at midnight. I had no credit card, I had no local money. I had no Italian language skills and I had no idea where I was staying. No one at the ferry terminal spoke English, and no one could recommend a place to stay.

Luckily one taxi driver took me to an upmarket hotel that was open, they let me booked me in with the understanding that I’d have to go to the bank the next day to pay them, and the taxi driver.  The kindness of strangers is as incredible as my stupidity.

Which reared it’s head again the next day when I went to the bank without taking note of the address or name of the hotel…  It took me 8 hours to trace all my steps back to it. It was the first and last time I made that mistake.

Tip: Always grab a card from the hotel with its name and address. This is also very handy when in Asia where the taxi drivers can’t understand the name, address or a map.

We all live and learn.  Thankfully even if at times it’s the hard way.

9. Hitchhiking

Best way to avoid being left out in the middle of a field in the rain at 3 in the morning or stuck in a car with a load of rednecks, is to simply not hitchhike.

If it’s a small town in a safe country and you must, do so with caution.  I have friends who hitchhike everywhere – they are also blokes.  So I prefer to play it safe, and avoid it –  buses are cheap, easy and safe.

10. Taxi Rip-Offs and getting run over

I know your thinking that taxies are surely not that dangerous. Maybe you’ve never argued with one so much that he then tried to run you over twice.  Or had one in Argentina who threaten to throw you out onto the freeway (without your bags which were in the back).

The first taxi was in Amsterdam, where I was living and I have to say despite being a reasonably organised country, it has the worst, obnoxious and terrible taxi drivers that I have ever come across.  The train into town is the safest, cheapest and best bet.

Tip: Don’t use unmarked cars that you find at the airports. Use a reputable company or book before if possible. If you have a hotel, see if they’ll arrange it or at least advise you on the rough cost.

Sure being ripped off when you travel is part and parcel of the adventure, yet trying to avoid the hassle, threats and abuse is also wise.

Surviving long enough to travel another day

So now that you know all my secrets on staying alive, you’ll live long enough to travel for another day. Really travelling is not that dangerous, confidence and common sense go a long way – be sure to carry them with you at all times.

And remember:

Life is short; death is long – so avoid it while you can.  A famous Native American once said ‘It is also a good day to die’… but it’s less of a good day to do so while travelling!

p.s. One of the biggest threat to travellers today is their own stupidity. Hanging off a rock on the edge of a cliff while taking a selfie is perhaps the universe’s way of population control…  It’s not on my list as it’s not something I’ve would consider doing or planning any time in the future.   Simple common sense says perhaps you should avoid it too.

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There are many idiosyncrasies that sum up Holland (the Netherlands) that many people miss when visiting.  However, are never lost on a Dutch person coming home.

After a recent and brief visit, here are a few of my favourites:

You know you are back in Holland when:

• The plane land so far from the airport and you spend 15 minutes being ferried all the way to your gate
• You get off the plane and are met by Tulips, a Heineken café and flashes of bright orange – not necessarily in that order
• You through and outside of the airport with little hassle in all of 15 minutes
• Passport control says ‘welcome home’
• The first beeline you make is to the Friettent – Fries Café, and the first thing you order is Frietje Oorlog, War Fries, Fries with Sate sauce, mayonnaise and raw onion, with a Chocomel (chocolate milk)
• Even the bus stops at the airport are pretty
• The second pit stop is G-star outlet, as serious there are no better jeans, and no better selection here or price
• It’s drizzling in a way that you can’t call it rain, but it seems immune to umbrellas and you’ll be wet and miserable either way
• The taxi drivers are all ruthless thieves which is why you take the train or bus which only cost a few euros
• The buses are all electric and modern
• You have to remember to swipe on and off all public transport
• You outside and get run over by a bike
• You stop outside and into dog poop, or in my case, my friends were warned via the apartment app there was poop on the doorstep – beware those without the app
• You are no longer the tallest person in the room – the Dutch are excessively tall
• Breakfast is sliced bread with an option of cheese or peanut butter – which is why you either take two slices or cut one in half, it’s a tough choice
• When every coffee comes with a koekje (cookie)
• You hope that one food truck the ‘Olliebollen Kraan’, is still around (often only before Christmas), so you can still get a deep friend bit of delicious dough an ‘Olliebolle’
• People are a wee bit bossy and speak their mind without needing to try and be nice about it
• The only stonners you see are foreigners
• You are sad to leave, but also know that a short visit sometimes can be long enough
• You know you’ll be back to visit all the places you missed soon

The last visit was a short one, for an avid traveller as much as I like to visit my country and reminisce and see my favourite haunts. I’ll be honest and prefer to visit new countries and experience new cultures.

But the beauty of living a literal hop, skip and jump of a short plane ride away, is that I can visit, even if just for a day.

I flew Flybe.com from London City to Amsterdam – which is a cheap and easy flight, both airports are easy to get in and out making a shorter trip hassle-free.

If you are planning a trip to Amsterdam be sure to check out my blog post insider’s guide which you can find here.

Tourism and Tourists Running Rampant

Have you’ve noticed how much more populated tourist spots have become? Those famous sites like the Eiffel Tower in Paris, The Acropolis in Athens, or the Seven steps in Rome, all seem to be even busier than ever.

Perhaps you’ve seen hoards of tourists trampling through an epic natural event such as the baby turtles hatching in the beaches in Costa Rica on social media. All to take the perfect selfie. But at what cost?

No doubt whenever you are next on that idyllic little island getaway that surpasses all natural perfection. The last thing you want to do is to share it with these very same tourists.

How and where do we find the balance of sharing, yet keep it pristine?

These are questions I often ask myself as I write about my travels. On the one hand, I truly believe that travel enriches our lives beyond measure.

Having grown up in a clean, safe, pristine country like Australia I recall my initial shock at being on my first international trip in Asia.  The currency, haggling, pushy sellers, the rubbish, the dirt and difference to life as I’d known it.

And yet, the more we travelled, the more we learn to appreciate what we have.  We grow up and extend our empathy and love for the world around us.

Have you ever noticed how the children in all countries laugh and play?  That for the most part people everywhere are generous and kind, no matter what their social status.

We wouldn’t be who we are today without travel.  The opportunity to explore the world and recognise that we are simply just like everyone else, a human being from earth. On a miraculous blue ball in space that we all share with a few million other people.

And as such, surely travel is a good thing, when its done right.

Yet, when we look at the impact that excessive travel is having, we are reminded that it would be better if we made the effort to travel conscientiously and sustainably.

So that we can keep this magical planet in its natural pristine state.

How do we travel sustainably, respectfully and leave only a small footprint?

Here are some handy tips that can be practised whether you visiting somewhere close to home or abroad:

1. Respect Nature

• Don’t Litter, sounds obvious yet there is always rubbish, let’s not add to it.
• Keep the use of plastic and throw away items to a minimum, wherever you may be.
• Tread mindfully, there is no need to stomp or shout when walking through an otherwise peaceful forest. We want to see the wildlife, not scare them away.
• Turn your cell phone off.
• Once in a while put the camera down, experience being part of nature. Look at life through your own eyes, no lens required.
• Breathe, practice being mindful and present.

2. Respect Animals, and Native wildlife

Game shooting is beyond appalling, as are zoos, circuses and anywhere that animals are misused for human entertainment or leisure.

You can get up close to local wildlife ethically, research before you go and know the difference.

There are real reserves that treat hurt animals and were set up to protect them, like the White Lion Protection Trust. Or there are those, such as canning zoos in Africa where lion cubs are grown up and get used to being with tourists, so they can more easily be hunted and shot.

Understand the reality of this, don’t ignore it. Investigate before you go, read reviews and educate yourself. When you make an educated decision you can then support the right organisations, and remove your support from those that treat animals so appallingly.  Where you choose to spend your money can make all the difference.

We can choose to be custodians of this planet and its inhabitants, at any time through our actions.

3. Respect other people, and respect their lives and customs

Common sense rules the day. However, let us count the times we’ve seen people do the opposite:

• Research Before going to a new country what is the correct way to behave and what is not. This way you know that touching a person in India with your left hand is an insult. In the process, you’ll save yourself from any obvious embarrassments.
• Be polite at all times.
• Dress modestly if you attending a religious building, ceremony or are in a country where the women dress modestly, or that is religious.
• Be Quiet and respectful during a ceremony so that other people can listen and enjoy.
• Don’t judge: People live the life they are living. Countries habits vary, and you’re lucky to have the opportunity to be there and see something new, enjoy it move on.

4. Photo Taking: Little respect goes a long way, and results in a better photo

• Ask if it’s ok before taking a photo
• Be respectful when there is a ceremony, procession by not getting in the way and holding it up.
• Notice if people are flustered or uncomfortable with you taking a photo
• Once and awhile put the camera down and be present
• Don’t disrupt or touch wildlife in their habitat for a selfie, watch from a safe distance where they won’t be stressed, or invaded by your presence

5. Research where you are staying, who you are paying (where possible)

• Stay, tour or visit spots that hire locals and support the local community
  • Ock Pok Tok in Laos is my favourite example; it is run by a small community collective. They have fair trade practices and stands for the empowerment of women. You can sleep, eat or learn natural dying and weaving of Silk that is such a rich part of the Laotian Culture. I enjoyed seeing and meeting the inter-generational women that worked there from young to old, laughing, weaving and creating.

Small acts of respect and common sense go a long way in the world

When we travel we have the opportunity to vote and support sustainable practices with our dollars. We have the opportunity to learn from local cultures, and to be role models along the way.

Local communities flourish when we use our dollars to support them by staying in their accommodation and eating in their restaurants. By choosing to spend our money locally rather than with bigger international enterprises.

By travelling with a smaller footprint, by travelling mindfully and conscientiously, we move through the world, leaving it in the same state for those that follow.

The value of feeling at home

Home isn’t always a place as much as a state of mind, one of comfort and belonging that can often come to us through the quality of the friends that we have there.

It’s a sense of having someone to call and go out with for lunch, a drink or night out to the movies.  A friend we can turn to for advice, which can be anything from a good hairdresser to issues with a local utility company.

Home is, knowing that when the brown stuff hits the fan that there is someone around who gives a damn.  That’s home, it goes beyond a comfortable house, job and furniture.

Why that feeling is even more important abroad

When you’re moving abroad as a newbie or veteran expat, there is the initial honeymoon period that wears off. Once the newness of a place wears off you are left with the reality of everyday life.

Surviving your first year abroad can be a challenge.

Everyday life, even when abroad can become a monotonous humdrum of work and chores. The only difference will be that you will be doing your shopping, washing and working out in a different language. Surrounded by unknown faces.

Once the novelty of a place wears off, we get homesick. But it’s not for a place, but for the ‘sense of belonging’.

If you’ve just arrived at a new city and have only been there a few weeks or months, you may not yet have met other people.

We know that admitting you want to make friends sounds, naff…

In reality, most of the population are friends with the people they grew up with.

Which is why if you are not living in a big expat culture the idea of forcing yourself to go and make friends can be difficult.  Even if you are in a city with a big expat culture, just meeting other foreigners is not a local experience.

While it’s great to meet others having the same experience as you, it is good to meet locals too.  They’ll give you an honest perspective of living in your new country.

How do we go about meeting new people

Sure, for some people meeting people comes naturally. In your 20s you might just go out to a bar and clubbing and know everyone by the end of the night.

As we get a little older, we might have to force ourselves to go out and make an effort. We may need to put it on our to-do list, and heavens forbid even have an action plan of steps that we need to take.

Be prepared that it may even take longer than expected.

Let’s be really honest and even brutal

It’s a perk and the downside of getting older, but honesty comes with that as does wisdom.  Fact: you don’t have to like everyone you met.

It is ok, after having a coffee with someone you’ve met, to not meet up with them again.

Let’s put in the extra effort and meeting people that we get on with fabulously, and soon skyrocket to the top of people that we want to spend time with.

Even if we have to force ourselves to get up and out to meet these people, on numerous occasions, for weeks or months in a row.

While meeting friends in pubs and bars, can be the easy route, however, these can be here today gone tomorrow type of friends.  There are many other opportunities to meet locals in a new city.

How and where to meet locals

Here are a few ways that we can meet new people abroad with similar interests and find common ground that is a good starting point on the road to friendship.

1. One way is finding work abroad, through an interesting job assignment. Work is always a great way to meet colleagues and clients.
2. Stay somewhere unique and local
   • Homestay e.g. Bed & Breakfasts, Airbnb. Or you can host fellow travellers via Airbnb and earn some travel money without at the same time.
   • Get Free Accommodation by doing a work exchange via Workaway or Helpx, Woofers.
   • House-sitting. Recommended sites are Mindahome, and housesittersuk, you may want to look up a local version.
   • Couchsurfing is more than just finding a couch to sleep on, they also have meetups and is a great place to also meet locals.
3. Attend a language exchange, if you’ve moved somewhere new where they speak a different language this is a great way for you to practice the language. Then to return the favour by helping someone else learn your language. Find an exchange through conversation exchange or language exchange.
4. Volunteer, at a smaller local non-for-profit. The more local the organisation the better as it will not only benefit the community more, there is also less likely to be a cost involved. You will also have more opportunity to meet others in the local community.
5. Learn something new. Do a workshop in anything that tickles your fancy or that you’re curious about forever.  Whether it’s learning local cooking in Thailand, a natural dying and weaving course in Laos.
6. Go to Community events, programs or talks – given by local libraries or community centres.
7. Join a local walking /bike clubs.
8. Visit local markets and spend some time talking to the stall holders and creatives – they love a conversation and if you take the time you’ll find their full of stories, insights, and tips.
9. Share a passion or mutual interest and then find a shop/studio where you can discuss and learn more. Be it Music, Gardening, Art, Books, Sport etc. etc. The list is endless.
10. Find and join a local community garden
11. Sign up and join Meetup, Internations, Toastmasters who all hold gatherings for people on a particular subject or in a particular city.

What do we need to do next

Meeting new people can be awkward, in the beginning, it will feel akin to dating. It’s rare to just ask someone you’ve just met for a coffee. Back home we rarely do that, or it’s a polite thing to say, but not followed up on.

Yet, when we are somewhere new we need to ride out the discomfort and go out for those coffees, lunches or accept invitations to other events that we’ll be invited too.

We need to keep in mind that:

Strangers are just friends that we haven’t met yet

What may sound like a dull night out could potentially be that one night that we click with someone who shares our vibe. There is nothing like meeting kindred spirits, and getting to know new people – once the awkwardness has passed.

Feeling at home and becoming a local

On top of making actionable plans, also dare yourself to attempt small conversations with people everywhere. You’ll find that Locals love discussing their country and advising you. Be kind and let them.

You’ll learn more from the gentleman on the park bench, or the lady in the bakery than you’ll pick up in a lifetime of books.

It’s the people we meet, their stories that touch our lives, they welcome us and help to transform a foreign shore into a place that we can call home.

Resources:

• www.couchsurfing.com
• www.airbnb.com
• www.workaway.info
• www.helpx.net/
• www.volunteersouthamerica.net/
• www.truetravellers.org/
• www.freevolunteering.net/
• www.withlocals.com/
• www.toastmasters.org/
• www.internations.org/
• www.meetup.com/
• www.conversationexchange.com/

Big gratitude for the two additional photos by:

Camels by Kawtar CHERKAOUI on Unsplash

Girls in the sunset by Marion Michele on Unsplash

Why move to Argentina?

Why would you want to move to and live in Argentina? Was the response I got, when I told friends I was moving to Argentina, together with a raised eyebrow and quizzical expression.

Ironically, I was moving because people kept asking me “Why don’t you move to Argentina? You’d love it.”

At the time I was living in Amsterdam, restless and tired. Tired of the endless rain, excessive tourism and cramped spaces. I wanted to live in a city with flavour.  Who doesn’t want a life with flavour?

What can I say, Argentina has flavour. Every body at the time in the Netherlands was talking about it. Two friends own a house there. The future king of the Netherlands just married an Argentine, other four friends had just come back from their trip to this magical wonderland.

All these conversations inspired me to buy a book on Argentina, and I was hooked and enchanted within the first few pages.

Most Magical Place in the world

What is not to like about the idea of spending time in the ‘Paris’ of Latin America. A nation of polo playing horse fanatics and real-life gauchos (local cowboys).

A country where soccer is the religion and BBQ is the national cuisine. A country whose history is weaved so densely and dramatically you could carve it with a knife.

The country has the wild expansive plains of La Pampa, the mountains and lakes of Patagonia, the deserts up in Santa Fe and Salta. As well as the uber magical city of Buenos Aires. If it could bring tears to the eyes of Evita and millions that hear the song, it may be worth checking out.

Within weeks a trip and dry run, was booked. Could, would or should I live there.

Is Argentina worth moving to?

Doing a dry run, whenever you are planning a move abroad is recommended.

When you spend time in a country for a trial run it’s definitely not a holiday. It’s a working vacation.

You’ll spend your time researching the best areas to live.  The quality of life versus the costs of living (rent/ groceries), salaries, safety and the political climate.

It’s a great opportunity to make time to meet with locals as well as expats living there so you get real stories of the everyday challenges from both sides.

Of course, also enjoy what the country offers from polo games, top restaurants and hotel pool, deciding where to live also means checking out the perks.

Researching the Move to Argentina

Luckily, researching Buenos Aires was easy; it is an exceptionally large city, so sources of information are also available in English, such as BA times a local online newspaper.

There are also plenty of opportunities to meet locals and expats at places like Gibraltar the English pub in San Telmo, at embassies, expat or internations events.

Argentina has its own active online expat forum baexpat.com where you can delve deeper into the types of challenges you may encounter. Along with relevant solutions, or meet like-minded individuals.

 TIP: keep a healthy perspective on forums, ignore the trolls. Take it with a it a healthy sense of detachment,  and it’ll become a helpful resource.

Originally, I planned an 8-week dry run, which I extended 4 times. And ended up there for an incredible 6 months.

While there, I really wanted to get an idea of what it would be like to work in a city with 3 million inhabitants. So, I spent some of my time volunteering at BABS (British Aged Care in Buenos Aires).

It was here I had the opportunity to meet people who’d lived in Argentina for over 80 years. And trust me when I say, there is nothing like listening to first-hand stories of a countries history.

On my second day in Buenos Aires, I stumbled upon and fell in love with Puerto Madero. A small island, next to the city and is secured by the naval police. The suburb is a refuge from the hustle and bustle, it is quiet, spacious and safe.

It was also here that English built the warehouses on the harbour in the early 1900’s, while they were building the railroads.  These recently renovated warehouses add a timeless charm and are home to some of the cities best restaurants, shops and cafes.

San Telmo markets are still within walking distance, and the rest of the city is also just a hop, skip and a jump away.

Final conclusion, after 6 months dry run?

Honestly, when I first arrived in Buenos Aires, I was shocked at the populous state of what seemed a dirty city. However, it won me over hour by hour, day by day. By my 3rd week, I was looking into potential job opportunities and any which way that I could stay long-term.

I stayed until my savings ran dry, and I had no options but to go home.

After 6 months, I left Argentina, heartbroken, devastated and determined to return.

Can you, easily move to Argentina?

How you migrate to a country depends largely on the country. In Argentina, you have a few options to choose from:

1. Get company/ employer to sponsor you
2. Set up a company
3. Marry and Argentine

My plan was to go with the first option.  So, I meet with anyone I could via contacts, friends, LinkedIn, peers in my industry.

Including the Ambassador, at my countries embassy, and went to lunches that were put on by the local Dutch and English Chamber of Commerce.

Many countries will have an embassy or a local chamber of commerce who assist with cross-border trade advice and networking.

With a fully booked agenda, there was only one objective and that was to find work.  While I didn’t get a job, I did meet great people and got a wealth of advice and insight on the business landscape.

Legally moving to Argentina

Being that my best option would be to find a company to sponsor me, the reality is that this is easier said than done.  Despite my meetings, lunches and endless cups of coffee, I didn’t manage to find a sponsor in Argentina.

Language can be a real challenge when attempting to move to a country. If you are not fluent; it’ll be hard to put you to work or compete with local job seekers.

Like many other countries, for a company to sponsor a foreigner can be a costly process. One that includes fees, lawyers and paperwork.  Companies will hire you if you have specific expertise.

Or you can also try to get a job for an international company in your own country and apply to be relocated abroad.

Good Luck comes in Many Forms

Flying back to the Netherlands with a tissue in one hand and hope in the other. Expecting that it would be a near impossible task to find a company in the Netherlands to sponsor me to work in Argentina.

As luck would have it, a company that I knew just happened to be opening shop in Argentina. And within weeks, I had a job and was planning my move, as well as that of the company.

Friends I’d met, helped advise me on an appropriate salary, as the company would be giving me a local contract instead of an international one.

In a country like Argentina, excessive inflation rates need to be taken into account.  Eventually, with the contract signed, everything else was put in motion.  The real business of moving could begin.

Finally, Moving to Argentina

It was my 8th international move, so as ever practice makes perfect. My flat in Amsterdam was easily rented out via expatica.com.

The bureaucracy in Argentina like most Latin countries is phenomenal; the amount of paperwork and documentation required was second to none.

I am eternally grateful that the company’s local lawyers assisted me with my working visa and the importation of my goods. This is one move that I would not have wanted to do on my own.

As with anywhere, signing up for the utilities was not fun at all.  This was when a good friend gave me advice that served me throughout my time in Argentina and beyond:

‘When dealing with an issue: don’t start a fight or get angry. NEVER back down or accept no for an answer’.

Great strategy to put into practice everytime I was told no. Whether it was for a bank account or electricity connection. I just planted myself down, and let them know I’d be there until we resolved it.

It is incredible how many miracles happen when you have all parties working on a solution.

After the move and a chaotic dance of organizational mayhem. The paperwork was done and I had a new office, a new apartment and a new life. I could finally start living the ‘vida loca’.

Living the Dream in Buenos Aires

Buenos Aires isn’t a walk in the park, although there are some great parks to walk in.  The government is both crazy and corrupt, inflation is off the scale and life can feel like a bit of a roller coaster. Depending on the day, time and place.

The city is busy, polluted and in the last few years, the economic challenges have resulted in an ever-increasing crime rate.  You need to live with both feet on the ground and be aware of how you walk and travel in town.

Despite all of this, it is one of the most incredible cities to live in.  Whatever you feel like doing, you can. Whether it’s tango at 2 am or front row seats at the Polo in November, or catching the boat to Colonia for the day.

There is a suburb for every mood, be it shopping in Palermo, dinner in China town, after work cocktails in Recoleta. Bike riding around Puerto Madero or a visit the famous Sunday markets in San Telmo.

In the words of the worlds greatest writer who is Argentine:

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It was all of this that made me love every minute of my crazy, wild, temperate and magical time there.

Yes, dreams can also end between a crazy government and the need for change, so I did eventually leave Argentina. Yet in retrospect, I wouldn’t change a thing.

Just like the song, ‘Don’t cry for me Argentina’, the truth is I never really left. The magic of the country lives on in my heart and lovingly etched in my memory.

Resources:

BA Expats
Online English paper BA times
Volunteer opportunities via GoAbroador local South American website
List of foreign Embassies in Argentina
Walrus books English Bookshop
English Pub:  Gibraltar
Meet locals and practice your Spanish via Conversation Exchange or Toastmasters

Further reading, see why November is the ideal time to visit and what to do while there check out this post.

My top reading list for before, during or instead of your visit here.

A few photos are my own, the others are shared with much gratitude to these other wonderful photographers:

Eduardo Sánchez on Unsplash

Sasha • Stories on Unsplash

Nacho Rochon on Unsplash

The World of Fast Travel

Do you travel? Surprised to see how much other people cram into their travel schedule? How people can see a capital city in two days. With a “must see” list longer than the Lord of the Rings Trilogy – you can’t help but wonder how they get it all done.

You may spot these fast travellers, they will be sleeping on the boat tour, or on the bus. On route to their next destination.

They will be in the queue for hours to see the Mona Lisa. You’ll see them quickly snap a photo before moving on to the next painting. They’ve not even glanced up, savouring all the magic within the art itself. The magic that can’t be captured in a photo.

You can’t help but wonder, will they ever look at these photos? Bore others with the photos they took? Will, they remember the waiting, the painting or the trip at all? Any which way, they can tick it off their check list, and move on to whatever is next.

At some point, we’ve all been there. I recall racing through Europe with a Eurorail pass in one hand a cheap glass of wine in the other. Cities blurred into one another – I saw enough churches to last me a lifetime.

Yet now, years on, this is no longer how I view of want to travel. The destinations in my life are not a checkbox, waiting to be ticked off and seen in a hurry.

No, now I am a slow traveller. I enjoy the endless meandering through strange suburbs. Blending in with the locals and relishing each divine moment that I spend somewhere, be it home or abroad.

The World of Slow Travel

Slow travel is the opposite of trying to cram a city into two days or an entire country into a week. It is the state of being for which they special words, like ‘meandering’. It’s savouring the moment, meeting locals, and even stopping to smell the flowers.

Time is a commodity if you only have so much time off a year, and you go away for a weekend. You want that time to last, and to enjoy every precious moment of it.

Which means that you may not want to waste it in a queue to a museum. Preferring instead to find a spot to have a coffee and do some people watching on a terrace. All while, tasting the local cuisine, studying the locals they go about their day.

How to Travel Slowly

There are many ways to travel slowly. It is often a good idea to either scrape your ever extensive ‘checklist’, or exchange it for a few top priority items.

Through being spontaneous and open to what comes up, time also slows down.

When the old gentleman in a carpet shop offers you a cup of tea, why not take it rather than rush out to the next shop.

Sitting down and having a chat with a local gives you new perspectives into someone else’s life. It is an opportunity, that you would otherwise never get the chance to experience – and can’t be bought.

A simple cup of tea can end up being worth its weight in gold. When you look back on your trip years down the road, it will be this simple cup of tea, rather than a church that you remember.

Do carry a map if you feel you need to, or if you worry about getting lost. Ask your local hotel or hosts, if there are any dodgy areas to stay clear of. Depending on the country it’s always good to know where they are and to be sure to avoid them.

Then, head off into the wild blue yonder. Leave your watch and phone behind, and see the world unravel before your eyes. With the wind in your hair rather than a checklist of expectations in your pocket.

The best thing about slow travel is that you don’t even need to go abroad. How often do you meet locals who have never been to a nearby landmark or tourist haunts nearby? Perhaps, in one form or another, we are all one of them?

Wouldn’t it be fun to cultivate some curiosity and uncover stories and history in our local area?

Exploring the world outside your door

In this era of conscious travel, we are all concerned about our ecological footprint. The resources spent in getting from A to B, and at times suffering the masses of tourists doing the same. So why not practice slow travel by exploring the world outside our door.

It’s not that hard, to find things to do.  Perhaps visit a local museum, or tourist office to see what’s on.

Right now, I am travelling and living back in the UK. My ultimate form of slow travel, by spending months in one place.  At this point, I am in the Cotswolds and have uncovered an extensive group of Long Barrows, (megalithic burial sites).

Only a few locals know about them, and fewer go to visit them. If you are living or plan on visiting the UK, these sites are pretty easy to find. There are a few websites where you can see what are near you or a short to long drive away.

Here are two I’ve been using:
http://www.megalithic.co.uk
https://www.english-heritage.org.uk/

Of course, if you are not in the UK, there is always the internet. So much and the world at the tip of our fingers, a wee bit of sleuthing will give you a small taste into the life of a local Indiana Jones.

Be sure to pack a sense of Adventure

What treasures lay waiting around each corner. Treasures being new stories, lives, and images waiting to be discovered and shared.

The best news ever, is a sense of Adventure is free, and portable, you can take it with you anywhere.

Use it as a tool, to travel through the world and life nice and slowly. Savour, experience and cherish each and every moment life offers to you.  You’ll see life and the world through fresh eyes and who knows what you will find!

Big thanks to Simon Matzinger on Unsplash for featured image.

This famous quote is more than true. When you revisit a place, much of it will have changed. You will have changed, everything evolves or devolves as the case may be. There will be challenges, be they old or new.

Which is the situation I currently find myself in, here in the United Kingdom.  It’s a very different country that it was 20 years ago.

The Current State of Affairs

I’ve now been here for awhile and the plan was relatively simple; find work and house sit while I am looking for work.  Once I’ve found a job I like, I’ll move into the area and settle down – voila!!

Sounds pretty uncomplicated and like a plan, sounds easy to implement, so I should be rocking and rolling in no time…

The Key Challenges of Moving to the UK

However, there have been a few hiccups, roadblocks and obstacles on the way, as can be expected with any move abroad.

Here were my challenges and solutions, where they exist. It’s was hard to put the list together in order of priorities. It’s a wee bit of a chicken and egg scenario. You see before you get the one you need the other, or so you will see:

1. Proof of Address

Now if you arrive and immediately rent a property, you won’t have this issue. However, for the most part, you will need a proof of address.

Most institutions such as a bank will request to see a utility bill or a letter from the tax office or a bank statement. The bank statement will be especially hard, as you’ll read below. You can’t open one until you have an official proof of address.  Herein lays the catch-22.

Now, this is going to be tricky if you are staying with friends, renting a room or house-sitting, as I have been doing.

I did read advice on one forum that you can register to vote wherever you are staying and you can then use this as a proof of address.

I didn’t want to risk trying this, as it could also trigger a local council tax levy in my name.   As I am house-sitting this is not something I want to risk. If you are renting it could be a solution.

One bank recommended that I register with a doctor and use that as proof of address.  Which I did do, yet they also needed (you guessed it) a proof of address.

2. National Insurance number

To work in the UK you’ll need a national insurance number.  Luckily, I already had one – or so I thought…  Sadly, it couldn’t be found in the system.  So after many phone calls, I made an appointment with a local job center to request a new one.

If you are new to the UK it is easy enough to apply, you need to call up the job center and make an appointment. Depending on where you live this can take a few weeks. They will send you a confirmation letter for the appointment. And if you don’t have a utility bill you can use this letter as proof of address for the appointment.

You do need to take your International ID/ Passport.  Keeping in mind right now, depending on where you come from you need a visa for permission to work in the UK.

If you are European and have an EU Passport, at this moment in time you can still apply and have the right to live and work in the UK. After Brexit, if and when that all goes ahead, the situation may change.

I’ve written about it here.

Once you have your appointment the National insurance number will be sent to you, this can take anywhere from 5 – 21 days.

Please note that your National Insurance number can not be used as proof of address. Which leads me to the next obstacle:

3. Opening a Bank Account

This so far has been the most frustrating experience. So much so, that I’ve decided NOT to open a bank account.

I don’t have any proof of address I can use. So, I’ve simply given up. But not without finding a suitable solution.

Thankfully, there are modern digital options that you can choose from instead.

To meet my nomadic needs, I’m using two financial companies:

Revolut:*  They are ideal if you still have an account overseas in a different currency and/or you travel regularly. You can upload money from your bank account abroad and then exchange that currency as needed. They give better rates than you would get via your own bank.

They will send you a card, which is a prepaid card. So it doesn’t work in all online shops, but it works well enough in the local ATM’s, stores and for most online purchases.

The only downside is that they don’t give me a  local account,  with which to receive payments. There is a handy request payment link that people can pay into with a credit card.

But a company who is hiring you will want to pay into a real account.  Which is why I opened:

Monese*: This online, mobile account was simple to set up. It gives me a local account that I can use here to accept payments.  You can access it via your mobile, you can request a debit card. And in no time you are off and running.

It is a whole new world of banking, which is much more consumer focused, easy to use, with fewer costs and paperwork.

There are other companies that I looked into, but these two are trustworthy and meet my needs.  With that done, I am good to go.

Side note: If you would like to open a Monese Account, and get a £10 welcome gift, when you open and top up the account, just use my code: HUZEYS9F

My last challenge remains to be seen in how and when it’ll affect me:

4. The Dreaded Brexit

I wrote a post earlier about Brexit. While it doesn’t yet affect me directly.  One feels a gist of the overall unrest that exists in all levels of government, business, and society on the whole.

Ferries are complaining they have fewer bookings for next year,

pharmacies are concerned about running out of medicine. The general public doesn’t know what to expect.

The mainstream media doesn’t help the situation, as it milks every roundabout fear that they can scour up out of whatever garbage can their digging in. Only time will tell what is and isn’t justified.

For now, put your seatbelt on, and hang tight – like any of life’s roller-coasters I am sure we’ll come out the other side laughing or crying. And either way, we’ll brush ourselves off, soldier on. Heading right into the next challenge that life offers us.

So here I am, back in the UK for now, not as settled as I would like to be yet. However, already much more settled that I was.

Hope you find some of this advice useful to help you to prepare and tackle any future move you may have planned to the UK.

The photos are thankfully provided by Unsplash:
Feature photo by Bruno Martins on Unsplash
Night photo by Robert Almonte on Unsplash

Putting ‘Nature’ and ‘London’ in the same sentence may seem like an oxymoron. However, you may be surprised at how green and lush London can be once you know where to look.

As a visitor to the city, there are plenty of great museums and places to visit such as the British Museum, Tate Modern, Victoria and Albert Museum.  All super places to visit, however, too many hours indoors can leave you feeling like you’ve had the life sucked out of you.

Which is when you might want to escape to a park, such as Hyde Park, Regents or Green Park. Be warned that these may be full of all the same people you ran into in the Museum. The solution is to find a few less famous but more fabulous greens spots around the city.

These quiet lush places are the go-to when you start to feel a bit drained. A bit of fresh air and a place to recharge is the perfect natural remedy, and here’s a list of my favourites:

St Dunstan in the East Church

This church is tucked away in the back streets of the financial district, and can feel somewhat clandestine solely by the fact that many people that work nearby don’t even know of its existence.

It withstood and was patched up after the great fires of 1666, before being bombed during the blitz in 1941. Many of the structural walls of the old church remain standing although the roof is gone.  It’s a treat to watch nature reclaim the space.  There is a garden and benches to sit and while you enjoy a coffee or lunch.

It’s a stone’s throw from the Tower of London, so worth a visit before or after your tour.

Cost:     Free
Address: St. Dunstan Hill, London

Hampstead Heath

Hampstead Heath particularly beautiful park thanks to its lakes, easy accessibility and incredible views of the sprawling city that it overlooks. It’s the perfect place for a picnic – depending on the weather – or just a stroll to stretch your legs and get some fresh air and exercise.  Cost: Free

Inner City Squares

There are so many to list, it is really best to look on google maps and pick one nearby to wherever you might be on the day.

Go grab a takeaway coffee or a sandwich and find a quiet bench to sit on as you watch the seasons float on by.

A few of my favourites are Bloomsbury, Russell and Soho Square. Each with their own history, stories and famous plaques that are plastered on the affluent buildings nearby.  Cost: Free

Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew

Listing themselves as the most famous Botanic Gardens in the world, when you arrive you’ll see why.

You can visit for a whole day and still not see it all.  There are glass-houses, endless walking paths, treetop walkways, flower gardens as well as libraries of antique plant books, fungi specimens as well as a science, educational and specimen areas.  After all this, you might also want to recharge in the cafe, where you can sit and relax, enjoy the fresh food and endlessly green views.

Cost:     £13.75 for adults, £3.50 for children
Address: Kew Gardens

Chelsea Flower Show

This is a big colourful bonanza is held once year in May, and shows of the best of the best of the English flowers and gardens.  You’ll see where the term an ‘English Garden’, comes from, as it’s certainly no half-baked affair.  This is a serious business!

For the those of us that are easily enchanted by the colours, shapes, and smells of all that flowers offer us, it is the perfect way to spend an afternoon.

The Royal Horticultural Society can be found here and hosts a range of events throughout the country, so even if you are not in London in May, you can visit their calendar to find other events that may be of interest.  Website: Chelsea Flower Show

There is an incredibly beautiful movie based on the real-life story of Mary Reynolds. Who was the youngest winner of the Chelsea Flower Show. She works to bring elements of the wild back into our parks and gardens.

The Dare to be Wild Movie can be found on Amazon.

Hackney City Farm

There aren’t just lush green gardens to visit, in some places you can also pitch in and get your hands dirty. You can even visit and pet the animals on the farm, stop in at the shop and buy produce that is grown here on the farm.

Whether you have kids or if you just feel like doing something completely different while in town by visiting and supporting a local initiative, then head over to Hackney City Farm. The cost to visit: Free

Haringey Parkland Walk and Bat Project

There is a lovely Parkland walk in North London. It will take you along an old railway line, which is so incredibly rich in foliage you may be mistaken for thinking that you are in the countryside.  You’ll come across an old unused station that nature has reclaimed, and at the end of the walk you can visit the local Bat Project.

The bats are sleeping, undisturbed during the day, which is why it’s most shut off to the public.  However, it still has is a gorgeous spot in an ‘Adam’s Family kind of way’.

There are always ongoing projects to protect wildlife around London. If you would like to keep an eye on what is going on, or if you live or are visiting for a longer period you can volunteer and participate in the projects by going to Wild London website.

Cost: Free
Address:  Parkland Walk, Haringey
Map and information here

Visiting these Lush Green Foreign worlds without having to step outside:

For those that would love some inspired reading, either while you are on the tube (underground) or have a long-haul destination.

Or perhaps you are an armchair traveller, you can still enjoy it all from the comfort of your own home.

I highly recommend these books to put you in the mood, or to inspire your love of nature, travel and endless green gardens:

• The Signature of Things by Elizabeth Gilbert.
• Gathering Moss, A Natural and Cultural History of Moss, by  Robin Wall Kimmerer.
• Earthy joys by Philippa Gregory, Historical, Fictional and Green.
• The Secret Life of Plants & The Hidden Life of Trees will have you looking at plants and trees in a whole new way.  Did you know they’re telepathic? That they faint before you even think of riping a leaf off… so much fascinating reading.

Greenery is always is worth visiting:

Wherever you go, even in the biggest cities in the world finding a bit of time to enjoy the greenery around us is beneficial to us, our health and beneficial to the plants and trees. It’s our appreciation and involvement that keeps local councils aware of the importance of these spaces in our lives. Whether we live there or we are just a visitor passing by, we all need a little bit of greenery and fresh air in our lives.

Other articles/ resources that may interest you:

Stunning green Spaces in London via Secret London
Tours by locals 
25 Stunning Green Space in London by Timeout

Stunning photos, thanks to:
Hampstead Heath Photo by Amadeusz Misiak on Unsplash
Kew Gardens:        Photo by Jack Young on Unsplash

Argentina is an incredible place to visit, yet there are some times of the year that are better than others.

Here is the rundown on what to do, where to go and why ‘November’ is the best month to plan your visit to Argentina.

# 1. Whales watching, Peninsula Valdes

The whales come into the Peninsula Valdes with their newly born calves on their journey to the Antarctic. It is here they stay here for a time in safer, nutrient-rich waters while the calves grow, before moving further south in December.

To go and see them this closely is a once in a lifetime opportunity that can’t be missed.  I went out with a local company called ‘Botazzi’.  We were very respectful of the whales by not going too close to the whales, as we didn’t want to infringe on their space. However, they did come up to us, to hang out near the boat.

We were surrounded by 7 whales with their calves.  The mothers were diving for food, while their young stayed near the surface.

These elegant masters of the sea were continually singing to their young and communicating with each other.  Surrounding us with a mystical orchestra of whale sounds. There wasn’t a person on the boat who wasn’t touched by the experience.

Orca Whales:

There is also the opportunity at this time of the year to go and watch the Orca whales, which I didn’t take.  The Orca’s come up at this time of the year to feed on the sea lions and penguins that come into the area.  For them, it’s a seasonal buffet of wildlife, and they come all the way up into the shallow water to snap up their next meal.  However, be sure you have a strong stomach (unlike me) as it is nature at its rawest and most brutal.

If you are staying in the area for a night, I recommend you stay at La Casona Del Rio – a family B&B.  You’ll feel at so at home you may never want to leave.

# 2. Gaucho Festival, San Antonio de Aerco

The Festival de Tradition (Gaucho Festival) is a modest local affair, it was surprising how few locals in Buenos Aires are aware of it or come to see it. It’s normally on around the 10th – 11th of November and may be moved if it is raining.  For 2018 you can find further details here.

San Antonio de Areco is a small country town that comes to life while the event is in town. There are a few local shops that sell traditional Argentina wares such as Mate’s, Silver jewellery and leatherwear.

It also has a unique Gaucho Museum in homage to the famous Gaucho’s (cowboys) of the countryside that is worth visiting. The event is held behind the museum.

It is the event of the year where all the local Gauchos compete against each other in some of the riskiest feats on horseback you are ever likely to see.

It is Argentine country life at it’s most laid back and finest, you’ll find kids and whole families turning up on their horse. Everyone drinking the famous yerba mate, and of course, there is a big Asado (BBQ – if you are vegetarian bring your own sandwich) to enjoy.

You can easily catch the bus up to San Antonia, attending the event itself is free. If you’d like to book a tour or visit a local working farm for a day out and a BBQ this local tour company ‘Areco Tradicion‘ can help you organise it.

# 3. Polo Open, Buenos Aires

The Polo in Argentina is the finest in the world. Most of the top international polo players are Argentine and spend most of the year playing in abroad. Yet they always come home to play in the Argentine Open which in November/ December.  So it’s the best against the best, which will have you sitting on the edge of your seat throughout the game.

While in many countries Polo is a luxury affair, in Argentina you can have it any which way. On the one side of the field, you have the stands which cost a bit more than the normal seats and you’ll be surrounded by more foreigners and affluent Argentines.

On the other hand, you can get the cheaper tickets.  These tickets give you access to the side seats, that are closer to the field and the horses and in the middle of the Gauchos and campesinos (country folk).

At halftime, everyone rushes to the bar where it’s a just one big gathering of polo fans.  It’s a serious sport and a dangerous one – which is why the risk-taking, fearless Argentines excel in it – and who make it a pleasure to watch.

The event is spread over 4 weeks, and most locals only attend the finals, so tickets are easily purchased at the gate before the game.

To find the most up-to-date information visit the website of the National Polo Association Argentina.

Best hotel to stay in while in Buenos Aires while rubbing shoulders with the Poloista’s or at least other polo fans is the Faena Hotel in Puerto Madero.

# 4. Jacaranda’s are in Bloom

While this may not sound like much, it will be when you see it for yourself.  Most large cities with a similar population look and feel like concrete jungles. Not Buenos Aires, throughout summer the trees give you shade and shield your view of the buildings behind them.

Yet in November the Jacarandas come into bloom and throughout the city and Puerto Madero you will come across a whole sea of Purple Flowers.

These contrasts assure that every photo will have a touch of contrast and magic.

# 5. International Jazz Festival, BsAs

For anyone who is into Jazz or live music – the biggest Jazz Festival in Argentina takes place in November. It supports both national and international artists, playing everything from Jazz to bebop and Nuevo Tango.

With many of the events being free to attend. The program is available on the government’s website, where you can find this year’s dates, bands, and venues.

Another live music experience that you can see any time of the year is Fernando Fierro, who started off their careers at the San Telmo markets. As their popularity grew they opened their own venue and offer the best alternative tango night and experience in Buenos Aires.

To get into the flavour of the Tango, before you go, be sure to read the Tango Singer.

# 6. Gay Pride, Buenos Aires

Gay Pride takes place annually in November celebrating not only the one day, but there are plenty of celebrations spread out over the week.

The parade starts at the Governments Casa Rosada (Pink House) and takes over the city from there. You can find more information here.

# 7. Night of the Museums

Buenos Aires is one of the most nocturnal cities you will ever visit, with most tango bars opening between 1-2 am (yes that is very late at night or early in the morning).

Yet, while you can visit a Milonga (tango club) anytime, the Night of the Museums is on once a year.

All the museums are open and many have special events to celebrate the evening. Free buses and local taxis can take you from one spot to another, and their website has a map with all the museums participating.

# 8. Iguazu Waterfalls

November is a great time as it’s just at the end of winter and heading into summer.  These are some of the most stunning waterfalls in the world.

There is a discrepancy between Brazil and Argentina both claiming their side is the best. I advise you to make that decision for yourself. There are many tours taking you from one side of the other, or you can organise this for yourself.

Keep in mind that you may need a visa if going into Brazilian side depending on where you are from. This can change at any time, so if you would like to go to both sides it is worth investigating before you go.

Staying at the La Aldea de la Selva hotel puts you in the middle of the Forest near the falls, which means you can enjoy nature and the butterflies while having breakfast in the garden.

# 9. Punta del Este, Uruguay

Ok, I realize this isn’t Argentina. However, due to the amount of Argentines there in January, it feels like it’s an extension of Buenos Aires.

While getting an affordable place to stay here in December or January in near impossible.  So November is the perfect time to visit as everything is open and won’t break your budget.

If you are looking to escape Buenos Aires for a day catch the Buquebus over to Colonia for a day.  It is an old colonial Portuguese town with art galleries, craft shops, and great restaurants.

# 10. Patagonia

By November the snow has cleared off the mountains and the sun golden rays will be bouncing off the lakes. Hiking paths will be open or you can sit inside, kick back and enjoy the incredible views.

This is the place for fishing, hiking and nature enthusiasts.  One of the most spectacular trips to make is the drive through the Seven Lakes, this will take you past some of the most spectacular lakes in Patagonia.

For places to stay and use as a base Bariloche is a mini-Latin Switzerland, with wooden houses and chocolate shops. Most ideal hotel is Hotel Tunquelén*, perfect views over the lake of the mountains.

Do you want to know more about Argentina? Check this out: Things to do in Salta

Photo of Iguazu by Julia Caesar on Unsplash
Photo of Pantagonia by Delfina Iacub on Unsplash

Ever dream of escaping your everyday life?

Would you like to escape to your own Magical Faraway Kingdom? Wand and princess outfit not required (although you can bring them if you wish).

Do you ever imagine yourself, swept away off on a medieval pilgrimage – such as the tales of old:

“In a faraway kingdom, in a mythical age – you arrive at the doors of the fort as the sun sets off in the distance. Your horses’ pace is ever steady, yet you know that he’s tired after a long days ride.   You’ve arrived at the right time of the day, as the tide is out and you are able to cross the causeway to the Monastery.  Where you leave your horse at the stable and find yourself a suitable room above the inn.”

*sigh, dream*, what one wouldn’t give for a horse and room at the inn…

Have you envisioned checking out of your life for a few days to escape to a place so far from your everyday reality? It’s just the break you need to give your mind, spirit, and soul a well-deserved break that it needs.

You might be asking yourself if places like this still exist, and if so where.

Let’s uncover where you can find the keys to this faraway kingdom and unravel some of its mystery, that magical kingdom is ‘Mont St. Michel’ in Brittany, France.

The Pilgrimage of Getting to Mont St Michel by Horse, Carriage or Magic Wand

The mini fairy tale above did happen, albeit without the horse, and it’s not as far away or impossible as you might think. Although it is a bit of an adventure to get there. So, be sure to bring a travelers knapsack in which you keep a good book and a jar of patience.

I brought a very special book on this journey, one that I’d been waiting to read till I was on a real pilgrimage of my own Art of Pilgrimage: The Seeker’s Guide to Making Travel Sacred.  This book was a perfect inspiration and gave me endless food for thought on my adventures during my stay at the Island.

The best route, depending on where you are coming from is via Paris, by air or over land.  Ideally, if you are able to hire a car or drive – as it’s a bit out of the way and a car gives you the extra freedom.

If, however, you are like me – the French and their style of driving are likely to have you in a panic – never fear, there are other options.

There is a train from Paris, to Rennes and from there you can catch the bus or shuttle.  Please find the most up-to-date options, and bus times here on Rome2Rio.

Do take heed: it is best that you are in time for the last bus, if the tide comes up you may otherwise find yourself stranded in Rennes for the night.

Or, if you are determined to get there as I was, it’ll cost you a small fortune for a taxi.

Is there a bed fit for a Princess above the Inn?

Perhaps you have a secret inkling that you too were once a prince or princess. Wishing that you could spend your time trekking across many lands on horseback – full of adventure, dwarfs, and elves…

You’ve seen the Hobbit, or read Sci-Fantasy books and there is always a wondrous room above the Inn.  These Inns do exist and there are a few of them located in Mont Saint Michel for you to stay in.

These are magical places to stay, firstly due to the fact that they are so quaint, that you half expect a Hobbit or Aragon to come walking in through the door. Secondly, most tourists come in during the day on a tour, if you are staying on the isle itself you’ll have the village streets to yourself in the evening and first thing in the morning.

I stayed at Le Mouton Blanc, which has since my stay been refurbished. The real experience is the view outside, the partly lit and magical windy paths upon which the tourists slowly exit the fortress.

Before you know it, it is evening and the streets have become quiet, the medieval shop fronts glisten and twinkle with mystery. The aromas from the Inns restaurant downstairs starts to travel up to your room. You can be lazy and glad to be able to eat downstairs at the Inns Resturant.

Like most restaurants on the island, it’s French – from the open fire to the wine, bread, and candles – it creates an atmosphere from times gone by. I tried the hearty French soup, that tasted as good today as it would’ve if you’d stopped at the Inn 500 years ago.

What’s a Princess to do, once she reaches the Fort

Sadly, Mont St. Michel doesn’t have dwarfs or elves. Better yet, it has a dragon!

St Michel, of course, was the angel who slew the dragon, so you’ll spot signs of their presence everywhere.

In the statues, shops, and artwork around the Abbey.

A word of wisdom on getting the best photos is set the alarm clock and get up early.

At the crack of dawn, there will be no tourists, and you’ll have the whole magical place to yourself.  You can meander down the cobblestoned streets, enjoy taking endless photos without anyone in them.

You may with a bit of imagination even envision King Arthur and his men riding out of the mists at any given moment.

Free Sunday Morning Recital in the church

The Abbey on Mont St Michel is a working one, Monks and Nuns still live there as the did once upon a time.  It means you’ll share the space with them, as well as the ringing bells that calls them to service.

If you are lucky enough to be there on a Sunday be sure to catch the mass, held at the main chapel at around 10 am.  The soft singing and chants of the choir ring out through the towers of the monastery and will leave you in tears and the purest state of bliss.

It will leave you with goosebumps and a peace in your heart that is not comparable with anything else.  While I didn’t intend to sit in on the mass, I am incredibly grateful that I did.

Tricks for avoiding the crowds without the Cloak of Invisibility

While Mont St. Michel is magical, the place is quickly overrun with hoards of people as soon as the morning tours start arriving.  It’s like a real-world Disney with real-world magic and that is something that everyone wants to come and experience.

If you’d rather not hang out with the masses – then this is the perfect time to head off and explore the rest of the area.  You can walk across the causeway and visit shops on the mainland, go hiking in the Dunes or visit other nearby historic villages such as Dinan.

The outer edges along the shoreline if the tide is out is also a great spot to wander and take photos of the iconic island rising up over the causeway.

The true Magic of Mont St Michel

The most enchanting aspect of Mont St Michel is simply Mont St Michel, whether it is strolling down its characterful alleys. Peering into the small shops selling trinkets and religious paraphernalia. The old-fashioned cafes serving delicious French pastries and restaurants lit with candle-light.  The magic hangs in the air and sweeps you away to a simpler era when like you, many pilgrims came by here looking to experience the magic and get a warm place to sleep.

Spending a few days is enough, especially when you sleeping on the island itself. You can make the most of the varies tides, the local wildlife and enjoy the peace and quiet of the Abbey.

The trick is to enjoy a touch of slow travel, let yourself be swept away to a place where little has been touched by the hand of time.

My last tip is to leave the real world at the threshold as you enter this enchanted place, and let the grace and magic in.

p.s. If you do see a dragon, Aragon or a hobbit, please be sure to let me know.